In order for a guy to have a sexual interest in the opposite sex, it is not necessary to create a romantic environment with candles at all. It can happen anywhere, anytime. Erotic background can appear unexpectedly during work, a walk in the woods or a simple conversation.
To the question: "How to understand that a man is aroused? " - every girl will confidently answer that it is noticeable by an erection. In fact, not everything is as primitive as it seems. Psychologists confirm that the desire to own a woman betrays the appearance, facial expression, body movements of a man. Speech can only convey information that a person intends to convey to others, and the face and body reveal the real feelings and state of an excited man.
In order to understand that a man is excited, there are certain signs.
The surest and most accurate way to check if a guy is horny is to look at his pants just below the waist, or better yet, to touch his arm.
An erection is the dominant sign of a man's sexual arousal. At the moment of the rush of blood to the head of the penis, the male organ hardens. In this case, the internal pressure can coincide with the arterial, allowing the organ to change shape and increase its size.
There are cases when, with emotional sexual arousal, there is no erection. This is a sign of vascular disease, diabetes mellitus, psychological stress or stress.
Nonverbal signals
There are several nonverbal bodily signals that speak better than any word about a man’s sexual condition.
- During the conversation, the guy begins to inadvertently approach the object of his attention. And gradually the distance between the bodies inevitably decreases. This will be followed by a light touch of the hands and feet. This gesture will not involve active action, it will be almost invisible. But this is how a new love story can begin.
- If a woman is nearby, the man wants to touch her, hug her. But it happens that circumstances do not allow him to do so, so he tries to take his hands: he fastens and unbuttons his collar, loops with a tie, twists a button, smoothes and ruffles his hair, pulls on his jacket. With enough excitement, the young man wants his partner to know about it. A man can get aroused when he touches her hand or other body parts, fixes a woman’s hair, seeks a mutual look, while literally leaning close. So don’t be surprised when an outwardly calm gentleman suddenly starts actively helping out of the car or serving a coat. Everything is understandable: pleasant gestures of participation are another way to touch the object that interests you. When sexual arousal occurs, the guy begins to automatically stroke and spin in his hands an object that has fallen into his hands, which has the shape of a cylinder. Whether it's pencils, glasses, etc. This is no longer a signal, but a decisive appeal.
Courtship phase
If a man expresses sexual sympathy for a woman, then he will definitely mark it with his behavior. If the meeting is held in a restaurant, then he will fill a glass of wine, offer a snack and help him sit on a chair and get up from it. He will do all this not only thanks to a good upbringing, but also his actions will be guided by the instinct of the male principle - in order to get an additional opportunity to touch the object of his desire. This expression of concern suggests that the young man is planning a joint breakfast.
Pose man
Noticing a sexually interesting girl, the internal switch of the female heart conqueror moves to the "alpha male" position. And this is where the movements that will speak of a man's interest begin: a quick lifting of the abdomen, a straightening of the back (a hint of good physical shape), a turning of the shoulders, in a sitting position, a lifting of the legs. Such a gesture, in a way, suggests that he has something to offer a woman.
In addition, in front of the object of his worship, the guy tries to appear in a favorable light. He straightens up, tucks in his stomach, straightens his chest.
Sometimes the signs of initial arousal can be read by touching the face (nose, chin, ears). And women have such gestures. They give off excitement. Touching the lips or licking them unequivocally suggests the sexual overtone of these manipulations.
Physical reactions
- Rapid breathing, enlarged pupils, parted lips, a slightly hoarse voice - this is a conditional signal that a person's thoughts are working in a certain direction.
- Slightly dilated nostrils seem to catch the female’s scent, indicating obvious sympathy.
- At the same time, thirst occurs, which is associated with an increase in body temperature.
- Visible blush on cheeks.
- Touching the chin, nose, ears. According to psychologists, by stimulating these zones, a person tries to hide reflex nervousness and autoerotic symptoms. When aroused, facial skin becomes very sensitive to touch.
- When a man is obsessed with passion, he loses control of his gaze and speech. With a blurred look, flushed and pale, even the smartest guy starts wearing such nonsense that a girl may doubt its adequacy. It's simple - at this point, information is being processed that is not sent to the brain at all.
- A sign of an excited state will also be the redirection of the topic of conversation towards intimacy. An erotic association can arise in him when discussing everyday and everyday things.
The visual image excites every man. So that a woman would not have to constantly monitor her erection and listen to her partner's breathing, for fear of missing the moment of initial arousal, it is worth learning to interest a man and attract his attention.
And finally, a little advice - do not turn off the light during love games, because a young man, not seeing a girl, will not be able to get excited enough, and she will not know if he is ready for sexual exploits.